Bravo! Well done Zara! Thank you for writing and sharing this. I am happy for the deeper thought on an issue that is front and center for me. I stared at the words you wrote about your daughter because they are exactly what our experience is. My daughter feels the same. And I love that these girls have the internal strength and tenacity to see it for what it is, call it out and do something about it. I have waited until a lot of the necessary paperwork and business has been settled. Your writing is the encouragement I needed to tackle the process. I don't want to carry the name of an abusive, toxic, depraved person.