Christianity models after Jewish law and they use these interpretations to train endless generations. Women become objects to acquire to check off the legalistic box of marriage. And she serves the purpose of satisfying his sexual needs (plus other responsibilities). Young girls grow up being taught to conform and aspire to being chosen by a "good Christian (religious) man". This mindset sickens me! It is a legalistic matching game. Erased is autonomy, intellect, personal value and identity.
When men (and women) are required to marry to please God and the law, it morphs into something that I think is unhealthy and destructive.