Hello: I will add that I was not disregarding all of your thought of your article. I see the empath and the narcissist in relationships as evil seeking good and a parasitic relationship. Narcissists seem to be soul-less. They don't have capacity to give, care or love except how it builds up themselves. So it hits a sour note when I hear you say they are soul mates. Even if we survive them, I will not claim the glory of it. Is that your point? It is like saying: "but look at the good that came from a murder or natural disaster".
separate story: I am open to further dialogue. You may use my reply (of course as long as you would not devalue or disparage me is the process of writing). Respectful further dialogue, I welcome.