Hi Adeline: There are some of us that care about a persons heart and soul. I think those of us who are sensitive, empathic and genuine are a very small percentage. That is crushing. I am sad because of the pain they caused you. I accept and celebrate you and your fun day of adventure. Those people just showed you who they are. I am in a space where I am hurting about what other people say about my body. My parents, siblings, ex and others cut me by criticizing my (and others) body and outward appearance. I am in a massive struggle to learn how to be grounded, centered and okay with myself after living a lifetime surrounded by toxic people. I know a lot of reasons why they do criticize and cut. But it doesn't make it less painful. I am grateful that you would share this.