I find this one especially disturbing. "made to": The women in my family are legalistic, pious and controlling. It is a terrible way to live. And SA is now adding to it- force. I grieve for the children that grow up in toxic families.

"normal sexuality": This is another subject to dive into. I can't think of a Christian woman that I have known that is genuinely happy in her Christian marriage. I can't name one person (Christian) that I have known that has a positive sexual relationship with their spouse. All of my life I have watched and observed relationships, hoping to see that a good relationship was possible. I have been inside of Christianity for a lifetime. I have seen a lot of very dysfunctional relationships. I know what his intention is when he says "normal". He demands compliance, law and heterosexual coupling. Otherwise, they don't care about sexuality except that the woman must please the man and keep him happy. My experience is that Christianity's teaching on sex is destructive. "Sexuality" is not something they should be talking or writing about. They are blind and twisted. They have corrupted and smothered and shamed sexuality.