I know your response is to Brenda. Your openness in sharing your experience is moving. I have thought of hosting meetings of women that are hurting from loss and dysfunctional relationships. I have seen the power of community. I think you would be good at something like this.

My starry eyed dream of finding romance has been extinguished as well. I think it is good to be clear and honest about desiring warm healthy relationships, in whatever form. It is equally great to plot your course otherwise.

I hope that you have warm, healthy and rich relationships and community.