I will celebrate with you. Really. Would you celebrate with me? We do need a rite of passage type thing to grieve and begin our new voyage. I am over a year out. It was hell, loss and trauma. It is not just a divorce process. It is a lifetime of emotions to navigate. That final day of court, I knew (despite the utter injustice, pain and destruction) that I had what matters. I have my kids who know and loved and supported me. And I felt I know who I am and how hard we fought to get out. (He fought for greed, things and himself.) I am so proud of you! I am so incredibly happy to see you getting out and moving toward thriving. The sunshine and fresh air feels great, doesn't it? I feel what you say, deeply. I am so sorry you have too. You are a mighty, strong, brave warrior! You've got this!