It is interesting to see your perspective. It is the concept that it is always good to have a friend's perspective. I was insecure and always felt inferior. I saw the good in people. It was confusing because she had a soft side, was lively and in charge (which reads as happy and successful) and would do kind things. But I see criticism as neutralizing the good. I knew how her stings made me feel.

She probably only lived with me for two years. She quickly began to pursue a boy from her hometown and was spending a lot of time with him (traveling on weekends and summer break).