OMG! That song!! I have been listening to that song. And yes of course, that is so on point! I have chills and aahhhh! And I know the reality behind why Taylor Swift wrote that song. Do you know? It is the same circumstance behind the song "All Too Well" and the short film. It is about abuse and a toxic guy. I am going to listen to that song again! The concept of my dads trading in all their chips for nothing has long been in my mind, but it applies to much more.

"stopped shaming yourself": yes and it's ok to honor your feelings, regardless.

I didn't know what I didn't know: I feel that so much.

You have made me so happy! I am so happy to connect with you. I appreciate your warm, encouraging reply and that you would read my stuff!