WOW Yael!!! Bravo! Crowd roaring in loud agreement! I feel all that you are saying.

You have hit to the heart of the very reasons I do not want to date. The energy that it would take for me to deal with all of that is too much.

I love the solidarity, energy and connection I feel in this piece.

P.S. I think those like us should be in a supportive community. I am thinking that we are like the Amazon warrior women that lived on an island- from the Wonder Woman movie. If someone drops out of the sky for us, fine.