Your voice and willingness to lay this out like you have is vital! I am passionate about this because it hurts children and adults and our relationships. I greatly admire your perspective. We need strong and rational : ) men like you standing with us, speaking and breaking down harmful ideas and mindsets. Hey, let me know when you do a TED talk. Have you seen Justin Baldoni's Ted talk? It's title is: Why I am done trying to be man enough."